The truth is...
...that people can't tell and take the truth anymore.
Actually, it has gone so far as to people wanting to hear a lie.
How many times a day do you ask others, or hear others asking the queistion "How are you?"? Ehm. That is, in most cases, quite many times. Not that it's anything wrong about the question itself, but.. What is wrong is the way that it is asked. People who ask it do not, in most cases, want to know how the person in question really is. They just want to come in on a subject to talk about. So they ask that, and in 9/10 cases, they expect an answer like "I'm quite well, thank you. And you?". But the fact is that most people are not like that. They just answer it because it's expected from them. What's worse is I'm just like that myself. Just answering that question the way it's supposed to be answered. I'm not emo and cutting myself every single day, or anything, but at certain points, I really don't feel so good, but whatever the case, I still answer with "I'm fine, thank you".
I mean. I don't believe the person I'm talking too wants to hear me complein about how hard my life sucks, so I go with that swell white lie of mine. "I'm fine" MY ASS!
Well. Even if i would be fine, it's all really just the same. It's nothing wrong with neither the question or the answer. What is wrong is that it's a standard question and answer. It has no meaning. Just something you say, weather you mean it or not.
And that's only one single tiny part of it. Truth.. Well.. Truth isn't wanted in many aspects. We all complain about politicians not telling the truth, but... Do we REALLY want the truth from them?
"So, mr. prime minister, how do you plan on soloving the economic situation, now that the -insert currency here- gains strength?"
"Instead of caring even the least about the economic vaue of our of currency, we'll fucking drop the social health care crap that we've had for a long time now, and not only that, but we'll completly drop all the foundings to the police so that the burglars in this country can do whatever they want. Than before next election, I'll go out strong with "MORE HEALTH CARE TO THE PEOPLE" and "I'LL EMPLOY MORE POLICES IF YOU CHOSE ME!". Muahaha!"
Well. I don't believe people want to hear that. But that's more or less a slight exaggeration of what every single politician is saying. But what we all listens to is what we WANT to hear them saying, i.e:
"We'll not be worring about our currency. We should be worring about where all the taxes go today. We need to re-prioritice our economy, and thus, we'll be slightly cutting down on the over-paid police force and some other very big tax-burglars. Imagine how much money we all can gain on this! When things are better next year, we'll re-found the force so that there is no hope at all for the law-breakers out there" *put on the most trustworthy face here*
Now, isn't this what you all would like to hear?
Bah. Pathetic!
So, what could a little bit of honesty do good than? Isn't this where the darwinism has taken us, and thus, this must be the best, right?
Eh? No! This is not good, you stupid fucktards! It blows.
Let's take an example out of the everyday life:
Your sister is going out on a prom, and she has bought this glorious dress. She puts it on and than asks you, her sister/brother, what you think about it.
"So. How do I look?"
-- ERROR --
No matter how it looks, 90% (I actually believe this is an understatement) of the population would answer:
"Aww.. It's so cute! It looks really good on you!"
NO MATTER how they think it looks on that sister of theirs. They just answer that to not disappoint the stupid bitch, who probably wouldn't even be able to take a bit of criticism, anyway.
Now, let's say that it looks good. Than everything is all good.
But the problem starts when it doesn't. Let's say that the dress of hers is compareble to a plastic bag you use to bring the food back home from the store.
Now, we have a problem. She'll be the laughing stock of the day at that prom, not knowing why, completly comfident in her looking pretty, only because of you impaling her head with the idea that she falsly is. Poor stupid bitch-ass sister of yours.
Now, wouldn't it be better if you had actually told her the truth about the dress? That it does look like hell? Oki, she might get mad at you for saying it, or even misinterpret it to she looking ugly, and the dress fine. The thing is that she'll probably have another dress to wear, that looks better, and than it's all fine. Sure, she might not speak to you for a couple of weeks, but if that's the price to pay for her not ruining one of the biggest evenings of her life... so be it.
Honesty isn't something you should be afraid of. Be honest towards your fellow man. Even though it might hurt them sometimes, in the end, I believe that they'll be glad you are.